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	<title>Comments on: I Changed My Mind. I Want to Be a Man</title>
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	<description>frank tempone's literary project</description>
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		<title>By: Frank</title>
		<link>http://www.absolutegentleman.com/2007/06/18/i-changed-my-mind-i-want-to-be-a-man/comment-page-1/#comment-404</link>
		<dc:creator>Frank</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2007 18:05:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The MFA is a terminal degree, which means some colleges will accept it in lieu of a PhD. Some do the MFA for this purpose. 

I did it because I thought it would teach me to be a better writer. It did in some ways, but I always have the feeling that my work was better before the MFA. The thing it definitely taught me was to be a closer reader and to rely on instinct and organics more as a writer rather then planning everything out before I wrote it.

The number one con was that the format of the MFA Program is not conducive to an organic writing process, ironically enough...A writer has to create X by a certain date, revise X by a certain date, and enlighten his teachers with XX in critical analysis by a certain date.

If I were to do it again, I'd make sure I applied to a full-residency program. I did a low-residency, which was a great experience in itself...I just think I would have gotten more out of a full residency at, say, Columbia. I think I'd be inspired by NYC...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The MFA is a terminal degree, which means some colleges will accept it in lieu of a PhD. Some do the MFA for this purpose. </p>
<p>I did it because I thought it would teach me to be a better writer. It did in some ways, but I always have the feeling that my work was better before the MFA. The thing it definitely taught me was to be a closer reader and to rely on instinct and organics more as a writer rather then planning everything out before I wrote it.</p>
<p>The number one con was that the format of the MFA Program is not conducive to an organic writing process, ironically enough&#8230;A writer has to create X by a certain date, revise X by a certain date, and enlighten his teachers with XX in critical analysis by a certain date.</p>
<p>If I were to do it again, I&#8217;d make sure I applied to a full-residency program. I did a low-residency, which was a great experience in itself&#8230;I just think I would have gotten more out of a full residency at, say, Columbia. I think I&#8217;d be inspired by NYC&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: angelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>angelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2007 17:28:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well, i wanted to ask you, what's your take on the fiction MFA degree?  i've heard so many differing opinions on its worth, and i can't figure out if i should bother even applying.  so what was your experience like?  pros and cons?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well, i wanted to ask you, what&#8217;s your take on the fiction MFA degree?  i&#8217;ve heard so many differing opinions on its worth, and i can&#8217;t figure out if i should bother even applying.  so what was your experience like?  pros and cons?</p>
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		<title>By: angelle</title>
		<link>http://www.absolutegentleman.com/2007/06/18/i-changed-my-mind-i-want-to-be-a-man/comment-page-1/#comment-397</link>
		<dc:creator>angelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2007 20:17:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So I just went back and read some of your older entries - including the ones about your [mis]adventures with your agent(s) and your first stab at publishing your collection of short stories.

As someone who would like have her name on the spine of a book one day, I can empathize too well with the sorts of ups and downs you must have experienced with that.  But, I guess I'm also someone who hasn't done an MFA, and who has sort of just started this journey, and who hasn't gotten enough rejections thrown in my face yet.  And maybe, even if I'm a little thin-skinned, I'm a little too optimistic for my own good.  I hear the stats, know the reality, hear it from the inside from people who work in the business, and it's such a daunting task that the realist in me wonders why bother.  But I have to believe that with the remaining decades in my life, I'll be able to win that lottery if I keep buying a ticket every day left to me.

So, sob story it is, but luckily for you, you're a good writer, and as someone once said to me, if you keep knocking, someone's bound to answer the door.

Anyway, just wanted to drop my two cents to those entries since they were so interesting.

Btw, I may pose you a few questions here and there, as suggested by Vivian :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So I just went back and read some of your older entries - including the ones about your [mis]adventures with your agent(s) and your first stab at publishing your collection of short stories.</p>
<p>As someone who would like have her name on the spine of a book one day, I can empathize too well with the sorts of ups and downs you must have experienced with that.  But, I guess I&#8217;m also someone who hasn&#8217;t done an MFA, and who has sort of just started this journey, and who hasn&#8217;t gotten enough rejections thrown in my face yet.  And maybe, even if I&#8217;m a little thin-skinned, I&#8217;m a little too optimistic for my own good.  I hear the stats, know the reality, hear it from the inside from people who work in the business, and it&#8217;s such a daunting task that the realist in me wonders why bother.  But I have to believe that with the remaining decades in my life, I&#8217;ll be able to win that lottery if I keep buying a ticket every day left to me.</p>
<p>So, sob story it is, but luckily for you, you&#8217;re a good writer, and as someone once said to me, if you keep knocking, someone&#8217;s bound to answer the door.</p>
<p>Anyway, just wanted to drop my two cents to those entries since they were so interesting.</p>
<p>Btw, I may pose you a few questions here and there, as suggested by Vivian <img src='http://www.absolutegentleman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
		<link>http://www.absolutegentleman.com/2007/06/18/i-changed-my-mind-i-want-to-be-a-man/comment-page-1/#comment-374</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2007 13:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Both of those pictures should be framed and displayed in a prominent place in your home.

Just saying.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Both of those pictures should be framed and displayed in a prominent place in your home.</p>
<p>Just saying.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jun 2007 02:46:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>New draft has been sent</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>New draft has been sent</p>
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		<title>By: Frank</title>
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		<dc:creator>Frank</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jun 2007 02:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I sent you the story, and yeah, I want to read yours...That first draft was intense...can't wait to read the next draft.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I sent you the story, and yeah, I want to read yours&#8230;That first draft was intense&#8230;can&#8217;t wait to read the next draft.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jun 2007 01:38:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm reading the road now...about 75 pages in with very mixed feelings.  My new story's done now.  Wanna read it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m reading the road now&#8230;about 75 pages in with very mixed feelings.  My new story&#8217;s done now.  Wanna read it?</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
		<link>http://www.absolutegentleman.com/2007/06/18/i-changed-my-mind-i-want-to-be-a-man/comment-page-1/#comment-369</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jun 2007 01:49:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You owe me a story...the one that your student wrote...don't forget to send it.  I'm looking forward to it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You owe me a story&#8230;the one that your student wrote&#8230;don&#8217;t forget to send it.  I&#8217;m looking forward to it.</p>
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		<title>By: Daisy</title>
		<link>http://www.absolutegentleman.com/2007/06/18/i-changed-my-mind-i-want-to-be-a-man/comment-page-1/#comment-368</link>
		<dc:creator>Daisy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jun 2007 18:51:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My exception was to the implication that a man who mows lawns or, gasp, might even take pride in proper lawn maintenance, would definitely never be a man a letters...well, boys, to thine own self be true, I guess.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My exception was to the implication that a man who mows lawns or, gasp, might even take pride in proper lawn maintenance, would definitely never be a man a letters&#8230;well, boys, to thine own self be true, I guess.</p>
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		<title>By: angelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>angelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jun 2007 15:51:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>haha.  that's pretty great.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>haha.  that&#8217;s pretty great.</p>
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